May 31 2010

Mother’s Day Performance


As a parent, I just love it  when the kids have a recital or a performance in school. Amazingly, it stirs up a spirit within us to want to see them excel and it’s really heart-warming to see the broad smiles on every parent’s face, as they see their little darlings perform.

This May, Nicole had a Mother’s Day Recital in School! As it was only delivered by kids at her level, it was a smaller and a  more intimate experience. (Check out her other performances here)

The teacher’s really worked very hard at it as well and here is a picture of the banner that greeted us, as we entered the school. Cool right! :)

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The school and classrooms were also decorated by the teachers, to deliver a Fun Party-like atmosphere!

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When we entered the music room, there were lots of parents there already. Everyone was armed with a Video cam or a DSLR as we awaited the performance (If u are planning to be a parent, do get one of these optical equipment, as the memories are priceless)

I went to look for the kids before the recital started, and they were excited and ready to go…Check out their excited faces before the performance.

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Nicole delivered a song and dance performance in Mandarin, and it was really touching, as our little princess sang with all her heart. She definitely gave her BEST and Daddy and Mummy were so proud of her. 

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In fact, All the daddies and Mummies were so proud of their kids, that they were snapping like crazy. I thought that I was at a celebrity press launch! :)

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Mummy who was the star of the show, was proud of her little princess!

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After the performance, we also got to see Nicole play the piano, as she performed some of the items that she learnt in her music class.

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The song items included movement and dance into the music recitals as well. (Nicole likes the dancing!)

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The whole family was there as well. Grandma was especially proud of her little Maestro!

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Nicole also played tour guide and showed us around her classroom.

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And of course, no party will be complete without FOOD!

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Looks like the kids were enjoying it more than the adults!



May 26 2010

Choosing a Pre-School


Are you facing the stress of choosing a Pre-School for your children?

Well, it seems that all of us parents have to go through that sooner or later and recently, I had the privilege to conduct an email interview with Fiona Walker (CEO of Julia Gabriel for Learning, Chiltern House Child Care Centres and Julia Gabriel School of Education) to get her input about about choosing a Pre-School?

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Fiona has had more than a decade of experience with Pre-Schoolers and I thought that this interview will be very useful for us parents.

Here are some of the questions that I put to her:

1. What are some factors to consider when looking for a pre-school?

Choosing the right pre-school for your child can be challenging for parents. Here are few tips that can help you and your child feel confident you have made the right choice.

  • Decide what location you prefer and what your budget is. It is important that the school you choose will comfortably fit into your family’s lifestyle.
  • Once you have narrowed down the possibilities, make arrangements to visit the schools. Many schools will have a similar sounding philosophy so it is important you know what to look for so you can see if it will work for you and your child.
  • On your visit ask yourself – Do the children seem happy, are they actively engaged in a variety of activities, is the environment bright, cheerful and filled with children’s art work, is the equipment plentiful, varied and in good condition? Do the teachers seem happy, are they engaged with the children, are they good language models and are they observant and aware of all the children in their care, are the children comfortable and affectionate with the teachers?
  • If you are happy with your first impression then make an appointment to meet the principal. You may consider asking the following questions:

· What are the teachers’ experience and qualifications?

· How important is the child’s social and emotional development as opposed to the more academic development?

· How does the school ensure the children are prepared for Primary One?

· How does the school deal with children testing boundaries and conflict? This is a normal aspect of young children’s development but it is important that you agree with the schools approach to discipline.

· How does the school ensure safety during pick-up times, outdoor play and field trips?

· How well is the curriculum suited to meet individual learning styles and personalities?

· How involved are parents? What channels of communication between home and school are encouraged?

2. What is the most appropriate age to send a child for pre-school?

Generally the most appropriate age to send children to preschool is between 2 and 3.

This is when children will generally have developed the language needed to express needs and wants, the physical development to be able to go to the toilet independently and the cognitive understanding to become familiar with the routines within the school setting. All of these stages of development are good indicators of whether or not a child will be able to make the transition to independent schooling without too much separation anxiety and distress.

3. What is the difference between a childcare/pre-school that is MCYS endorsed and MOE endorsed?

A childcare operated by the MCYS offers childcare for working parents as well as an MOE approved curriculum. Childcare centres must operate from 7:00a.m. to 7:00p.m., throughout the year.

Fees are paid monthly and a subsidy of $300 per month for full day is given to Singaporean parents.

MOE kindergartens run during the school term times of 40 weeks a year. They generally run for 3 hours a day and are not eligible for subsidy. Many kindergartens offer additional enrichment programmes for additional cost.

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4. What are some factors that we can compromise if parents cannot afford the top premium schools.

Get ready for a list of “Do Not’s” here:

  • Do not compromise on providing your child what is necessary for a happy day at school.
  • Do not compromise on a cheerful, bright environment which is well kept and clean.
  • Do not compromise on kind, caring staff who genuinely love their job and enjoy spending time with your child.
  • Do not compromise on senior staff members who understand the needs of young children and can balance that with the needs of the Singaporean school system.
  • Do not compromise on a curriculum which means children learn through active, hands-on experiences NOT teacher directed rote learning.
  • Do not compromise on open communication with the school.

The most premium schools generally have small class sizes, expensive, imported equipment and very well qualified staff. Of course that is all wonderful but children can often flourish in a larger group with interesting, age appropriate resources as long as the teachers understand them, the lessons are well planned and involve active learning.

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I think that these tips are very useful considerations that we can take into account when we are considering a pre-school for our children.

Most importantly, I think we must find a good pre-school within our family’s budget as well.

I know of parents who take extra jobs just to provide a premium school education for their kids… We Parents must realize that Mums and Dads are the best role models for our children, and that there is no substitute for Quality Time!

Check out more Parenting Tips at the Julia Gabriel Blogger’s Forum.

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You can Vote again, even if you have done so already, and you can find out more details here! Thanks :)



May 22 2010

Tips for New Parents


I have NEVER seen so many Dad’s gathered on one place before!

…the carpark was filled with cars, and there were only MEN going into the carpark lift…

…the hotel hotel was filled with MEN as well and when I entered the Ballroom, I saw the largest gathering of Dads in one place!

(I was relived to know that terrorist were not targeting Dads!)

This was the scene that greeted me, as I went for the inaugural Parenting Conference for Dads for Life. (Many Thanks to Maybe Baby * for sponsoring my ticket)

Check out the full article on the Maybe Baby site, as I discuss Josh Mcdowell’s Parenting Tips and other insights in this week’s blog entry at Maybe Baby.

* Maybe Baby is a Parenting Site supported by MCYS to provide a one-stop localised interactive on-line parenthood portal for couples seeking information on fertility, sexual intimacy, finances, lifestyle issues, pregnancy, work-life balance and other parenthood-related issues.



May 13 2010

National Family Celebrations


Does anyone want FREE tickets to the Sentosa Luge and the Skyride?

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Well, Nuffnang is organizing a contest in conjunction with the National Family Celebrations and they are giving away 700 FREE tickets to various attractions (Eg. Singapore Flyer, Hippo Tours) in Singapore.

U might be wondering:

Why are we so excited?

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As a family, we are always looking for new things to do in Singapore, and more importantly…

I just love spending time with the kids and doing stuff together with them.

So this is my pledge to them:

Daddy will make it a point to spend more time with mummy and the kids every week!

The kids are ready to pledge themselves to us as well!

Check out their enthusiasm:

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NATIONAL FAMILY CELEBRATIONS 2010 (NFC 2010)

Organised by the National Family Council, National Family Celebrations is an annual event which celebrates and reinforces the importance of families and family life. This year, Singaporeans are encouraged to make a personal commitment to their families by being a part of the Singapore Family Pledge Movement.

To provide opportunities for Singaporeans to follow through on the pledges to their families, there are a myriad of activities under the NFC 2010 calendar – which will interest the young, the old, and everyone in between! NFC 2010 will be held from 25 May to 26 June 2010, and this year marks the 25th Anniversary of the Celebrations. For more information on NFC 2010, visit www.nfc.sg



May 2 2010

Maybe Baby


What’s Maybe Baby?

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Maybe Baby is a new web portal managed by I love Children to encourage young couples to have Children. If you are planning to have a baby, or having questions about conception, pregnancies and financial planning – This is the site for you!

The site is also of great interest to ED Unloaded, as  we have been invited to be a resident blogger, and write a weekly column for the site!

With such an agenda, it is naturally supported by MCYS (Ministry of Community Development),  and other organisations such as NTUC (Ed Unloaded is a resident blogger there as well).

Today’s official launch was graced by the MP of Bishan-Toa Payoh GRC (Mrs Jospehine Teo) and by other celebrities such as Diana Ser as well.

To follow-up on the launch, there will also be a host of Parenting Seminars and activities coming up, so stay tuned, as I will blog about these activities soon!

I also met some friends at the Launch! Here’s Daphne from Mother’s Inc , who is a fellow columnist on the web portal.

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Check out my first article on the site, as it answers questions like why I started Blogging? If you think that I have always been good with children…You will definitely find out the truth from the article.

I also brought Nicole to the launch and she was very well behaved! :) Daddy was so proud of her, as she sat through the proceedings, and she even took pictures of Daddy, as he was being photographed by the Press and the photographers.

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My little girl’s photo! (Not bad for a 5yo!)

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Anyway, do show me some love by visiting the Maybe Baby Site, and leaving me your comments on my 1st article there!

See you! :)

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